Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Selective Action - A False Loner

It's strange. There's so much about me that enjoys being alone. There are plenty of songs about people who either want to be left alone or people who want to get away form loneliness. I can sympathize with both sides of the equation, I mean, people aren't exactly static and we all have our own personal joys and pains. That's why we are all unique.

I'm not a true loner in the sense that I don't prefer being alone, but at times I'm just used to being alone and getting along just fine regardless of it. The difference is that I do like being with people, but I'm just very, very particular about the people I'm with. If I don't think the people I'm with then I'll peace out as fast as I possibly can. I do have the self-control to do work if required, but when it's not a requirement I will not remain around if it's not to my benefit.

In the same way, I hate crowds. I don't blend well in crowds, and people will say that it's because I don't know enough people, but I would beg to differ. Even if I was in a crowd where I knew everyone, I don't enjoy myself because crowds make me stressed because they're loud, and compressed.

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